We are unique individuals, and we will have different viewpoints and disagreements that will occur in all our relationships. When conflict arises we can either handle it negatively or positively.
Under pressure we will discover each other’s faults and weaknesses, such as tendencies to depression, irresponsibility, oversensitivity or perfectionism. What causes disputes and destroys unity? Is it little things or big things? It’s most likely to be the small things that accumulate.
Behind these trivial things is the issue of our feelings. Do I feel loved, or do I feel neglected? If we share our feelings with love and honesty, we can always work together toward resolution of the conflict and rebuilding the relationship.